1) Having a giant caucus-like system isn't representative of the wishes of all the people in that household.
2) Gay marriage isn't being forced on ministers. They are not getting married. The beliefs of the ministers are being forced on homosexuals, because they are the ones who are not being allowed to follow their wishes.
3) Maybe they don't want a wedding cake to spite you, they just want to have a real wedding?
4) I don't intend to start a debate on marriage. You stated your opinion, I stated mine.