What I'm saying is you cant have it both ways. You cant in one breath say "live your life" and in the next say "but not like that"

Its hypocritical to say "dont let others tell you what is wrong [about what you think is right]" and then in the next breath say what you think is wrong about others.

thats not my point, my point is that you are being hypocritical.

but arent' most meme channels using video memes?

imagine making a meme saying "you shouldn't let people change your views on parts of society" and turning around to tell people what you think is wrong about a part of society.