I went through something similar many years ago with my daughter, and ultimately ended up raising her on my own. The thought of not being able to see your own child can be very overwhelming and emotionally draining, I know this first hand. Although I do not know all of your circumstances, but be as strong as you can for your daughter. No matter how you get pushed emotionally buy your soon-to-be-ex or anyone else, or a court,... make all your decisions based on what is in the best interest of your daughter. In the end that is all that matters.. and she will grow up better.. and have you to thank. No child can be luckier in life than to have a good parent. 2 is optimum.. but just one can make a life's difference.