You are a conservative, also a pansexual. I respect you and you should absolutely 'be you' and I can 'be me' (heterosexual female) and we can get along just fine. My husband and I have someone we know who is 'gay'. He is 'extremely' successful and a great person. He has mentioned to others, "Don't you think I would choose to be straight if I could?" That was an eye opener statement. So, I would agree with your "It isn't a choice to be gay" comment.
I also agree that there is a concerted push from the media to accept the transgender/gay scenario. The push to influence children's innocent little minds is HUGE. This is the part that worries me as I love children and want to protect them. I can see that you share this concern. That is the conservative part of you coming out and I love that you are in tune with that part of you. It makes you a reasonable and rational person as today the leftists have lost their moral compass.
My husband and I have raised two children, a boy and a girl. We raised them by the Golden Rule...do unto others as you would have them do unto you. We are not religious but totally believe in honesty, integrity, and character. It was very natural for our kids to be who they were....our son, into baseball and our daughter into dolls. We didn't have to deal with the agenda facing parents today with gay pride parades (handing out lube off floats...saw the video today) for "family friendly" events. That is just plain WRONG.
A friend of ours has a son who went through a phase of wanting to wear female clothing when about 4-5 years old, He is happily married today for a few years. Kids may be confused when young but figure it out as they get older. It is unconscionable to force feed them on gay/trans agenda at an early age (much less get a conversion surgery). I think we agree more than we disagree on things, Now-I-Just-Sit-In-Silence...