Jesus would not want you to control when a woman is allowed to be sad. I have traditional values. I love Jesus. I am a stay at home, homeschooling mother but the fact that you think you have the right to determine when a woman should express sadness is messed up. I know that my savior is big enough to handle all my emotions and that he holds everyone of my tears in his hand. You disgust me. Am I not permitted to mourn for my dead mother or just my husband and children. Ugh.