2 years later after receiving more knowledge and education i can successfully say that i have no idea what i was thinking and I know that the term ¨my man¨ can be gender neutral (i haven't been active for 2 years)
You said “when your nice to the lunch LADY so they give you extra food” but then you said “my MAN” so it would either be “my LADY” or “when your nice to the lunch MAN so they give you extra food” and it would work that way but otherwise it doesn’t make sense.
