Did you ever think that the men who are fleeing the country have families? Also, the men in that photo are not refugees. It is not something that is surprising that women fight against ISIS. Why don't you go fight ISIS? You could join the military and get a government sponsored flight near ISIS controlled areas. It is much harder to join the military for Muslims because of the bias and screening occurring on basis that they may be a part of ISIS which is a ridiculous claim all by itself.