Religion doesn't make you hate, it just tells you what the sins are. Knowing sins isn't hate. People are afraid of the word "sin" but that is what keeps you out of heaven. I'd prefer everybody get to go to heaven. That's love. I also want my children to get there. Because I love them. If you don't believe in heaven or God, I hope you are right because the alternative is where you'll end up if you are wrong and it will really suck. But I'm not in charge of that.