What you're describing, is the characteristics of authoritarianism & totalitarianism, common to many political and economic forms of organization.
Neither communism nor socialism are inherently required to be like that... However, as a practical matter, when the rest of the world is trying to overthrow your revolution, and/or invading and encircling your country...that may wind up being the path, chosen by the leaders.
And we see what happens, frequently, when the US and their Empire wants to overthrow people. They use USAID, and NED and IRI, and Soros etc., to create an astroturf army demanding "Regime Change"... At which point, sensible Governments move to shut down such "civil society" fronts...even if authentic and indigenous dissent is still allowed. Invariably the US will pretend that shutting down their CIA operations - reflects a lack of freedom in the country.
You're certainly entitled to your own opinions - but please do look at the 14 characteristics common to fascism, all of which were prevalent in Nazi Germany. By contrast - many were not in the USSR, which had a strong history of support for the arts. Modern Cinema in the West still owes much to Sergei Eisenstein and Dziga Vertov, for instance.
No. You're either sadly disinformed, or a bad liar.
In fact there WAS a CIA-backed Coup in 2014, after a failed attempt to override democracy in the earlier 2000's called the "Orange Revolution". At that point, the Banderite Nazis, that the CIA had been working with since the late 40's (Project AERODYNAMIC), and who'd previously been working for and with the Germans for much longer, ultimately as the Waffen SS, under Hitler - began raising the status of bonafide Genocidal Nazi war criminals, like Bandera and Shukevich, to "Heros of Ukraine".
With the unlawful overthrow of Ukraine's democratically elected, lawful Government, places in the East and South (who are ethnically distinct from the Pro-Nazi folks in the West of Ukraine, that overthrew the Government) declared their concerns about these events, that had been stage-managed from London and Washington DC. They began holding demonstrations expressing their concerns, and expressing a desire to secede from the now unlawful and hijacked Ukrainian Regime in Kiev.
In response the Nazis now in power committed a massacre in Odessa, using Nazi thugs and Soccer hooligans, protected by the police and intelligence services, which by this point were largely composed of Banderites, themselves. In excess of 50 Ukrainians were murdered in Odessa - a crime which the EU has just now decided to recognize, and has properly affixed the blame with the Kiev Regime.
At that point, Crimea, which had been Russian since the time of Katherine the Great - and had maintained autonomous status from Kiev, since the Ukrainian State was founded in 1991 - voted twice to secede, and rejoin Russia, overwhelmingly - first in their lawfully constituted Legislative body, and then by a popular referendum. Russia, having a Naval base there, already (since 1775), welcomed them. The Donetsk and Lugansk Oblasts followed suit, but for largely financial reasons, Russia couldn't accept them at that time. So they recognized their lawful desire for autonomy and independence, instead, and gave them some limited support.
It was AT THAT TIME - in 2014 - that Kiev started the Ukrainian Civil War, on Russia's border, and against the civilians of the Donbass, using the Ukrainian Army, and Nazi volunteer battalions like Azov.
If you don't recognize the rights of Eastern Ukrainians to be free from Nazis, who want them dead, and to steal their lands - then surely, you must agree that Kosovo is an inseparable part of Serbia - since thay had no vote.
