You misunderstood me. I said most women don't want to SEE that nasty shit. And that is true. So no....not a double standard at all. Of course a LOT of women are. You are right, it's mostly women that are into 50 Shades. For some reason women are more turned on by reading it rather than seeing it. Men are more visual. I've personally never read 50 Shades. Not because I'm a prude, but because I heard the writing sucks (no pun intended). But I'm willing to bet that NONE of the stuff you mentioned (the really gross stuff...not kinky....GROSS) is not in that book. And 99.9% of the women I know would never be turned on by it. But some men must be turned on by the really sick, gross things that aren't sexy AT ALL. Otherwise those women, who get paid to do it, wouldn't be making any money at it.