I don't want to bash your culture... in fact, I'm part Irish... and the Polish are great people. You need to understand, your comments, however you intend, can offend... especially words that are "charged" like ni**er. You need to remember, like what your mother would tell you, be kind with your words, they will come back on you "something fierce". I understand the push (or rational, however I much dis-agree with) to "say what you want to say" But again, your words have meaning, often more than what you intend... Your words will get you in trouble... use them wisely. You won't always have "nice teachable moments" like you will on here, like someone like me. There is a morality at stake in you, you have to do better, NOW, or this overlooked area will cost you something dear.