I'm a lazy reader and thought your name was pronounced canola, like the oil. Then, before posting a meme referencing your name as I understood it, I realized it wasn't pronounced canola. My point, I thought it was Hawaiian too.
As a feminist, I agree with this and am okay with it. We are all entitled to our own opinion and belief, unless it harms another being. That's the way I look at life, anyway.
When was this? If it was 2 weeks ago I had no access to internet. I rarely have a "moderator voice" these days. Some call it "Daddy issues" I call it "I father who I actually can't wait till I drive so I can run him over"
Why don't they realise you're doing it because they are a human and you want to be helpful not because they're a woman and you want to show them you're superior.