I agree with you, one the necessary bills and tasks are done, gaining extras is a waste of time unless that journey is shared willingly (family business comes to mind).
Some people will view a massive house, nice car and yard and wish it was theirs. The same people look down on a trailer with a yard full of quads, a bass and a houseboat, swing sets, call them names like rednecks. What I would see is a family that spends time together and lives outside the house together.