And feminist "respect women- education" doesn't change the hungry and hormonal opportunist. It does change the good guys though

Where are the transgender men supposed to go?

Personally I don't care if they use the men's room, as that can never become a threat. Just like no one really cares when a woman uses the men's room.
Locker rooms are different for people though, and concern for the many weighs higher to me than concern for the very.. very few

Are they allowed to use the women's restroom as well, then?

I guess that depends on whether or not they still pass as women physically. Even weak looking guys make women uncomfortable in such environments.
But transpeople put themselves in this situation by seriously believing they're not only culturally the opposite or other genders like many have been throughout history, but even the physical sex as well. That mistake can only be done amongst transsexuals (intersex), though in that realm, the ordinary unidealistic treatment approach is traditionally determined from the s*x binary as well, but ofc much deeper. I'll let those experts talk on that...
Let's just say it's limited how much I'll agree to pander to delusions and shitty philosophical ideas

So you think people who look like women should be able to use the women's bathroom, because regardless of gender or sex, we should all be striving to make bathroom spaces feel comfortable for everyone involved.

What ever option is safest for women. The male-female separation was and is based on that. But to simplify the bureaucracy created by industry sponsored mad people, I would not be against closing it off completely for all.
I know people with OCD who don't use public toilets bc no one cleans them industrially after every single use. Other people have issues with crowds at concerts, but no one clears the crowd for them

It was also to keep women safe from black men.

The times that I've used the women's room for dif reasons, I've humbled myself a lot when there's a woman there. It's both embarrassing, but most of all I want to pose as no threat, and so I make myself look kinda silly. I also say that I sat down and peed (which I do anyway), cos men's rooms are known to be much filthier on average.

So... You're a man in the women's restroom.... Mad about.... Transgender women in the women's restroom.

Yeah I wouldn't want to make that a societal tradition and fully accepted, and I think I've only done it two or three times in my 45 years.
Like I sometimes cross the street when there's no crosswalk, which is illegal. I'm not gonna try and make it legal - traffic accidents times shiite.

I still think you're a hypocrite for that.

Well, if a woman had decided to get me thrown out of the general place, I wouldn't complain. In a way, since I knew it was wrong, it prevented me from doing it when ever casually. Also drunk at Pub every time :D Normalization means guys would start standing in line to the women's room "cos what ever"

Actually, any type of rule based on your birth sex and not what you look like would allow men to sneak into the women's bathroom. (I still think you're a hypocrite.)