Bro. I would say, "look who's talking," but, really, what do I achieve from telling you that? Just know that if you ask me, you're the one who's ignoring everything that doesn't match your narrative, not me. When I find something genuinely challenging, I start questioning, asking, logicking. Is the atheist view right? Then I realize after asking for a while, no, there's a pretty clear theistic answer here. So try not to take this as an accusation, I can see that your accusations on my beliefs outrage me. I won't respond in kind, and you should stop trying to outrage people. It just makes them less likely to listen to you. Want me to answer some specific thing you think I'm just ignoring? Then shoot. Go ahead. Maybe I missed it or didn't deem it to be much of an argument, or didn't sense an argument in your claim.
Now for the divorce part. For that, I might ask you this: were you abusive to your wife? Did you make her feel unimportant or did you commit adultery? You do seem to enjoy calling me an idiot, I've gotta say. If so, she'll be a bit more justified than you say.
If not, I'll say she probably shouldn't have done it. I wouldn't be so sure that she was following what God wanted for her, but I hate to judge, that'd be God's job.