If incels are so sexually frustrated, why aren't they mad at women for being "whores" and not being prudes

simple, they're mad for not being able to have sex because they aren't found attractive by these "w**res"

A lot of girls rejected me because they were catholic prudes who didn't want a boyfriend and loved babysitting small children and the guys they did date were unattractive looking nerds, one girl dated a guy solely to have someone as uncle to her nieces and nephews and ended up marrying him.

What the heck?

I mean both positions can exist simultaneously, technically speaking
Also it's worth mentioning that an incel could easily just go to a brothel if they wanted, so it's probably not the s*x itself that's the issue, rather the lack of the relationship that comes along with it, I assume