Not all men, but if someone gave you a box of cookies and said half of them were poison, you would be weary of the entire box, right? Not all men, but if you see a shark in the ocean, you're getting out of the water, it doesn't matter that it's highly unlikely that you'll ever get bitten by a shark, you're still getting tf out of the water. When over 95% of women have been raped at least once in their life, and 90% of those women report that they were raped by MEN, it's not unfair of us to be cautious.