can a Protestant here please explain this to me

Mary was simply chosen to deliver the baby. she is the mesenger, God is the sender, we are the reciever, and Jesus is the message

But if God is the sender and Jesus is the message

Are you saying that Jesus is not God?

He is God. He's the son in the holy trinity, which is God.

The father, the son, and the holy spirit are all one god.

He was God from before the creation of the universe. His power emanates from Himself. She did not imbue Him with any Devine attributes. She was chosen to incubate His human body; the husk that housed His essence.

She is definitly the mother of God's Person of Jesus while he was on Earth. But so what? It's not like she was there before Jesus or before the other persons of the trinity. She did not gave God anything, which he could not have had otherwise. She was very blessed because she was allowed to experience the most time with Jesus incarnate. Also she was very brave and faithful! But I don't see, why the earthly mother of Jesus should get any special treatment in comparison to other faithful christians.