My wife teases me, she will yell "you know what you did" and I am still clueless. I know it is now my night to cook, make sure there is dessert and she choices what we watch. I could be getting played.
I think it is a gender-specific issue and have encountered it with my husband as well. It just would take a whole lot of mansplaining to convince us that you guys really are that clueless, lol! 😜