if anyone claims im talking abt them u outed urself not me.. i censored every name mentioned

this is going to be really tough to write. i thought i was friends with this girl but i guess not. ultimately it was my bad decisions that caused our falling out, but her pettiness took away her credibility.

this is a VERY long story and i will try to summarize it. so we were sort of friends last year and so i was in her friends server on discord

POINTS OF CONFLICT (background information before recent conflict):

- other friends of mine would tell me she "led them on" and not long after, getting with someone else. i defended her at first but of course i had some personal opinions forming, especially personally seeing the interactions she had with mutuals who were guys

- she asked through a mutual friend to be in my close friends server and only my closest friends on here got in. i told him that i would like to get to know her more first before actually inviting her since i usually dont let anyone in at all, it was a fairly small group in the server and though many of our mutuals were in it it was because i talked to them more than her. i thought this was reasonable but she couldnt seem to grapple the concept and it came up several times in future arguments.

- i found her instagram in my recommended accounts, since a mutual already followed her. she accepted the request and she did request me back but it got lost in my hundreds of instagram dms. i also have different boundaries for who follows me and she could have removed me as a follower as well, but instead she went on to tell other people about it and how i was "creepy" and "stalking her on instagram".

- dumped a friend of mine then he complained abt it and suddenly claimed they were still talking. she then told me she was talking to two other guys and that he and her were broken up. not sure who to believe but then i started talking in my server abt my thoughts abt her which i admit i was in the wrong for. someone else screenshotted all my chats and started sending them to her and some were lwk out of context so it destroyed me trying to reasonably talk to her about it after she found out. i apologized

- she got with a different friend and i dont remember exactly what happened but she was still hanging around so i ended up blocking her on discord and imgflip and then the friend started telling messages to me from her

when i came back on this alt we seemed to be on good terms then she suddenly started acting weird and a lil rude so i confronted her, and she pretended not to know what the old situation is when she prompted it in the conversation and tried to turn it around on me saying *i* brought it up

then she was like oh its weird if u defend me and i was so confused because she said i wasnt a girls girl so i was so confused because the only reason why i was tryna defend her when guys talked abt her is because i was tryna be a girls girl and we were kinda friends so i was like what side are u on??

then after this whole argument i blocked her again. but a few days later i did not even care about her anymore so i unblocked her thinking i wouldnt have to deal with her again

unfortunately i was wrong, later she came to me saying a friend was saying i was "talking" about her to the friend behind her back, which was not true?? and i was really confused. then she lwk started blackmailing me and was like listen here.. if u talk about me one more time i am posting all the screenshots!! but GET THIS. a few days before that she literally had posted old screenshots of our fight from like the summer (reference the points of conflict list above) so i was like thats rich considering u already were posting screenshots..

in a comment on that post she had told someone she thought i was trans so then i confronted her on that. i said something like girl u know i am not trans youve heard my voice seen my face and the ig account ur so angry abt not being a follower has my baby picture in the pfp and my whole name int he username..

then she is like well you have a weird perception of femininity like dylan mulvaney which guys this really stung. im ngl i actually started crying here 😭 tearing up over a random on the internet?? ridiculous for me ik. but ive just always been hyperfeminine my whole life and proud and it really hurts when someone insults me like that. plus if she took trans as a bad thing it makes her transphobic like.. anyways so i had a huge panic attack and while the fight continued i then reached out to a good friend of mine about it. (attached screenshots)

the next day the ig groupchat started flaming her. since i was blackmailed the night before by her i chose to stay silent. this one guy was simping for her though and was like guys!! stop it! and said weird things about her and her body or whatever i forgot it was something sexualizing her for all ik and i was like stop thats weird. unfortunately it ended up with the gc making a joke about something the formerly mentioned guy said and how it was corny and my only interaction was literally extending the joke by something like "whimsical ahh" or someting and the whole chat blew up for like 5 min with that kinda thing and then the guy got pressed and screenshotted the part my friends were flaming her and SENT IT TO HER WITH NAMES UNCOVERED while conveniently leaving out the stuff he said about her. she then posted uncensored screenshots of it, with irl names out and all. eventually someone brings up that she sent nudes to ppl or whatver and so she deleted the post and was like guys that was when i was 12!! except ppl keep saying she still does it so who knows if thats true but whatever ill believe her

so suddenluy she comes around and is like HELP ME DEL! they are spreading around my NUDES!! and so actualy no one was doing that HOWEVER something bad WAS going on and it was that someone who got sent them in the past saved it which is literlaly illegal so... that was pretty bad but what am i supposed to do abt it 😭 so i was like girl i like actually cant help u (although i did try to help and asked the person who saved them to delete them but ofc thats the most i could do)

so then she confronts me about the screenshots and is like how dare you say those things!! my friends turned on me!! even though she doesnt talk to majority of those ppl (KEEP THIS IN MIND BECAUSE SHE SAYS SHE LOSES HER FRIENDS BUT HALF THAT GC DIDNT EVEN KNOW WHO SHE WAS) and i was like excuse me since you were so interested in those screenshots u shouldve seen i WASNT in them.. and its not like the guy didnt say stuff abt u either

so then she starts being like what did he say what did he say! but i already yelled at him in whatsapp and it was resolved so i was like no

so then i thought to myself now hollon i actually owe this girl NOTHING!😻 i can choose my own path and do whatever i want✨ im done being nice to people who treat me like DIRT!💝💕

and so these attached screenshots are my last interaction with her!! i didnt care about her enough to block her so i just ghosted. it starts with her asking for screenshots of what the guy said. some background info is she also said some pretty nasty stuff to ppl who mentioned her in the gc. did i feel bad abt ghosting her? YES OFC! do i owe her anything? NO. this is when i realized that i was actually not in the wrong if shes hurling unnecessary insults at me and i can just walk away from this situation so i did. the end!

also! this girl can choose to expose herself for all i care! that is on her compeltely because i made sure to leave out names. the only reason i am mentioning this is because i am just dumping all the drama ive had recently here so i can leave with a bang since i am giving up this site for lent which starts on wednesday. have a nice life girl and hope ur not prowling around still..

THANK YOU SO MUCH

Ik who this is 😭

it did NOT need to get that petty at all😭 completely unnecessary

keep in mind my ig dms were literally being attacked by the creep i almost dated at the EXACT SAME TIME as this drama.. i had too much to deal with at once i ltierally cracked i couldnt do it

oh i bet u do..

The level of pettiness was actually insane oml

so hooked i read it last to first
10/10 dealing with the situation 👍

thank you so much it means a lot