You are young and wrong on all counts. A child born of rape or abuse is not defined by the drama their life starts under any more than a child born without legs. People can and do change their futures, education, strong work values and more can completely change a life. Many great people started out under dire conditions and overcame them. Death stops that progress. Consider the 65 million aborted American children, the world will never know if one of them might have cured cancer, extended human life, free power etc.
A few clicks and you can easily find stories of people that overcame all sorts of drama and thrived. I have no doubt that many of the children that were raised by their phones and not their parents will recognize that was also a form of abuse as they get older. Do your parents really know you, your life goals, dreams? I hope so for your sake but that would make you rare, most youth would admit they are largely raising themselves.
Abortion is not an answer to rape any more than shooting a victim of crime cures violence.