I really want to be a girl, but feel I'm not good enough for it.

Come on, pet. I told you, man. You are good enough. You can do whatever you want.

Let's hope I can come out as well as you say I can do whatever.

Blud, there's no trans test, you can't fail it.

Does it matter? If you understand yourself better & try to be more true to yourself now, isn't that enough? And what is "good enough"? It's not like there's some kind of test you have to pass.

Nah, I didn't have signs I just randomly woke up and was like, "Hey, I wanna be a girl"

That moment you shave for the first time ever, think "omg I look like a lesbian" and have a crisis abt "why do I like looking like a lesbian"

Nope, i never did with any significance either. But that doesn't make me any less trans

You tend to forget signs. Like I spent like a whole ass year asking my friends to treat me like a girl when I was like 4 and I forgot until like a month ago. Also, there might be more subtle signs, like the disliking of being shirtless. A big sign I had was a general detachment from my body, wanting to ditch it for a robot one the first chance I got.

Girl, relax. You don't have to pass any tests to be transgender.

Except actually being transgender to be transgender

you think i had the sterotypical signs of being non binary? nuh uh. do i call myself an enby? yeah. do i think that i migt be lying to myself? yep. but just because i may or may not lie to myself doesnt mean i shouldnt stay true to myself.

heck, your probibly more confident than me in your gender.

I'm doubtful about that.

really?

The thing is, I'm fine with boymoding. I rarely have issues with it. I mean, when I do, I do get decently dysphoric, but still.

(*that was stupid/silly of you myself*)
gender is not always abount dysphoria and euphoria(i think. i may be stupid.)
you could be trans without dysphoria but you are trans because you know its right.
lets talk genetics. it is posible that people have xxy chromosomes but fully develop as one gender. your brain develops fender slower than the rest of your body. theirfor you could have been born with one genders traits but your brain functions as anothers.

dw i didnt have signs too, i jst feel better now

I'll keep that in mind. Thank you.

np!!!

aw, i feel ya, i wanna be a guy, but idk how to start-

Here's a tip: Just go for it.
Examples of things you might want to do when you're sure you're trans:
• Talk to other transmascs
• Write down what exactly you feel (helps massively)
• Try to get a therapist to talk about it

Tyyyyyyy :D