When I was a boy a book came out titled
"Real Men Don't Eat Quiche".
One evening my mother made quiche for dinner and I refused to eat it, stating, "real men don't eat quiche".
Serving everyone else, she sat down at the right hand of my father, looked at me and said, "real men do not worry about what other people think".
This bit of wisdom spoken to me left me bound in a quandary of my own creation.
However, it also led to my realization that all decisions are mine to make based on what I think is best.
When people depend on you, they can accept and will help you overcome failure.
They cannot accept, nor will they help you overcome, indecisiveness.
Who respects indecision?
Look at current events - do you respect Kamala's indecisiveness?
Look at who closes their eyes to it.
Leadership is not misogyny.
Submitting is not subservience.
*Full disclosure, I never read the book.