They made a show like that!
Don't you remember "Good Times"....wait, no...uh, what about "The Jeffersons"....hold up, no...hey, "Family Matters"....not that one either...hmmm, not "The Cleveland Show", not "The Cosby Show", not "Everybody Hates Chris ", not "Webster", not "Hanging with Mr. Cooper", not "Friday", not "Boyz In The Hood", that was a single mother of only two and they dealt with Black gangs...
You may be right.
All of the shows I can readily remember had a tight knit, functional, mother AND father in the home.
But along came the music industry...and videos.
Read the lyrics and see the difference between "then" and now.
Programming black youth to self destruct - why?