I just find interesting the opinions and most importantly the EXPERIENCE of both on the matter.
I've learned alot, maybe too much, about social dynamics in groups and dramas.
What I've gain of it ?
- I stopped being the while knight going into dramas for no f**king reason.
- I stopped caring about OCs with cat ears because cmon man, I'm an adult now.
- I know why the furry community got in trouble and I know why despite that antis has also a bad reputation.
- I've learned that r34 is hella common despite my hope for humanity wanting to say otherwise.
- I've learned that you can be from any side and be an absolute a**hole or be a great friend or whatever. Groups doesn't define your whole personality.