But fr tho, we’re trying to figure out how to tell her (homophobic) parents that we’re dating

even google an opp 😭

Oop.
Uhhhhhhhh
Yeah good luck. Can't help u there

You have to hit enter you goober

Just build up the courage and say it, then let the dominoes fall where they may.

You can just like

Not tell them if ya want

My parents don't know about this site

It’s not an issue on this site, she is my actual irl girlfriend with homophobic parents who know me and think we’re just friends

Just go "Yo mom dad. We're dating"

just go "do you want me to be happy in life" wait for a positive answer then say "good , cause dating [insert name] makes me feel happy"

The thing is, I'm not the one who needs to come out. I need to convince my girlfriend to come out and she will not budge!

If she isn't comfortable, I'd suggest not making her. She might have her reasons that she just isn't ready to talk about yet

her reasons are that her folks are homophobic

Yea I know that. I had meant more the possibility of there being deeper issues involving her parents that she isn't ready to talk about.
Im just providing my advice, and I'm saying don't force her. She might not be ready or there might be some more underlying issues

Aight. Thnx man.

Any time

you tell them then

idea: tomboy mode. binder, slight muscle gain, masculine clothes, "interest" in sport. when youre away from them: gay mode.