THE IDEA that they do not know he is incontinent, uh, er...incompetent...
They have known he is mentally gone this whole time.
Like a bitter single mother that says she doesn't need a man yet scrolls tinder all day, every day, they are being contrary for the sake of contrariness.
Most of them do not have male role models in their homes so they latch on to the beta weaklings that whisper sweet nothings in their ears...and sniff their heads.