They used to call me "she" all the time like somehow that was a bad thing. No biggie, fine with me. But then I revived this account in 2021 after it going dormant for a couple of years after abandoning it for another, using Lady Dimitrescu as an avatar and reviving my Bad Bitch persona, they suddenly they went from calling me, "she," to calling me, "he." Thing is, despite the tone, I never said I was female or male.
I even got a timer last year for saying - I kid you not - "Did you just assume my gender?" which, as you know, the phrase and meme is repeated here dozens of times a day.
They routinely did the same to Octavia_Melody like that was somehow supposed to bother him, even memers that knew him for a decade.
It's just words. If it bothers them so much they have to make it a big deal about it, then the irritation is theirs to deal with. It's not even really projection when it's so openly glaringly blatant. But it is their problem.