If doing everything you can to have a child when you want one and doing everything you can to avoid having a child when you don't both offend him, it seems that what he doesn't like is women making decisions and having the power to act on them.
"Today … we see a form of selfishness. We see that some people do not want to have a child."; “I deem deplorable the practice of so-called
surrogate motherhood, which represents a
grave violation of the dignity of the woman
and the child, based on the exploitation of
situations of the mother's material needs,”