No, I would say conservatives view countries' borders like how feminists view women's vulvas: women can be as exclusionary as they want with who they have sex with, regardless of how bigoted, unfair, or irrational those preferences may be or if it hurts people's feelings.
Countries such as the United States can be as exclusionary as we want with who gets to penetrate our nation's boundaries, regardless of if those preferences are bigoted, unfair, irrational, or hurt people's feelings.
If nobody is entitled to sex, then nobody is entitled to entry into another country.
