maybe this is mean... but i don't understand what i should to say to her everytime, i simply don't care!

Closing a conversation is one of the things I really struggle to do too.
Like you don't wanna hurt em but please, I told you the chicken was ready 2h ago and I'm hungry as hell TwT

Tell her you're flattered but you only think of her as family

no pal, i meant that... she talks to me about other males... and i don't know how to respond. i don't care lol

Ah, oh...hmmm, that's a bit more complicated. She's probably not looking for advice, just someone to talk to. Literally just listening to her is probably all she wants. If she does want advice tell her you're afraid to give any in case it leads to anything bad.

i will try

Maybe she's looking for a male perspective, maybe she's looking for your perspective, maybe she has no one else to ask.

But as for her valuing your opinion, no worries, comes a day when you won't have that problem anymore. That's when you get to wonder what screwed up the good ol' days and why did everybody go away.

There's one thing worse than someone talking to you, and that's them not talking to you at all. And look at everyone older than you, no one cares for them either anymore, even the ones that used to be the life of the party. So that day is a'comin.

Basic be careful what you wish for,,,

I envy those people...those closest to their great reward. Then again, on particularly bad days I find myself envying roadkill.

There was this Punk fanzine, Mouth of the Rat from Boca Raton - high quality, newspaper grade zine. That's where the late great Dave Parsons/Ratcage (RIP) came from, moving to the Lower East Side in th eearly 80s and reviving the NYC Punk scene, starting Rat Cage Records, from whence the Beastie Boys and Agnostic Front, amongst others came.

Anywho, before all that, I got a copy of MoR, and there was one bit titled "So You Wanna Be a Rock Star... 50 tips...." Best piece of advice ever:

"Never complain about being a star, you might not have that problem next week"

BWAHAHAHAHAA, aces!

i feel like that she doesn't appreciate my opinion... i feel like that my cousin enjoys to talk about her prototype males with me. i find this as a little dumb, maybe it's just jealousy... i know but everytime i talk with her of my gf prototype she ignores me

Jealousy?

Well if she ain't listening to you in return, that's different.
I guess I railed without knowing the whole story, my bad.
People often come to me for an ear because "I'm the only one that understands," but they're nowhere to be found when I can use an assist.

Supposedly women actually tend to just like to vent when they complain rather than seek actual advice or solutions.

Some women get pissy when you offer advice. It's like, just talk to a mirror if all you care about is hearing your own voice. Granted that makes no difference if the passive party isn't interested in listening either way.

I hear you Modda. A lack of reciprocity sets me off. Healthy relationships are 2 way. 1-way relationships are usually transactional and involve money, i.e. employment. Or slavery. That sets me off too. When someone asks for a favor and then disappears into the woodwork, their future overtures are met with radio silence.

Ever see Chris Rock's take on that, women complaining about whatever? Just nod and say "uh huh," and once in a while say, "I warned you about that *itch, didn't I?" and then go back to nodding...

On a forum I used to frequent, I became the in-house therapist. It's alright when they're like friends, but many were like social vampires, always about their puffed up wee woes and them, and they couldn't give 2 *bleeps* about me or anyone else.

Also I tend to visual things too much, get too wrapped up in stuff, so sometimes this stuff got to me, and it was difficult to deal with. Meanwhile, many turned out to be attention seeking drama queens while I'm getting depressed and anxious about their problem of the week.
That's why I now tend to avoid this stuff or stream.

Plus I can be a bit of an itch myself with my kicking em in the nads,,,

"I don't care" is what set my little rant off.

thanks for your opinion. personally i can say that my female cousin isn't like the other womens. she is eccentric and she is also conviced that the world turns around her and that everything on this planet is less serious than her problems. she acts like a vitiated and cynical person who cares only about her opinions, her needs and her personality

whatever i feel or i like with her is something dumb which needs to be ignored. for her every actress in who i have a crush or when i talk to her about my ex crushes of the high school doesn't care, cause she wants only to talk about other males like a dumb person with no brain functions. she is not a woman she is a dumbass and i'm sorry to say that cause she is always my cousin after all... but i'm not blind

i know that at this age we aren't adult after all, but for me act like this is extremely immature for her. I'm young too but like Hannibal or you, Modda i like to talk also about other things like movies, life in general