Like people always cry to me, "just use the pronouns it's not that difficult and it makes them feel validated!11!!"
First of all, I would be lying to myself and feel like a hypocrite if I did so. Y'know, going against my core opinions of the world just so somebody feels validated
And second of all, if you need that much validation from random strangers everywhere in the world, idk, seems like a sure sign that you're just in it for the clout / to be quirky. If it's your "identity" you should probably be more certain about it