Respecting others shouldn't be dependent on anything other than the fact that they are people.
You create "isms" when you base respecting others on social devices, or as people of your ilk prefer, "constructs".
Tell us, do you respect caucasian, heterosexual, Christian, affluent, males?
Your answer will include an "if" or "but" statement which will further illustrate my statement that you are advocating discrimination.