It’s the common saying. “An emotional man is a dangerous man.” And even more dangerous is an emotional man who doesn’t care about the repercussions for what he’s doing.
This is why stoicism is important. Control your emotions, and don’t let them get in the way of your thoughts. Otherwise you might end up hurting someone, breaking something, or even ruining your own life.
Doesn’t even take into account when a man DOES get emotional and ends up crying or trauma dumping, he gets made fun of OR he gets shamed for it and is told to man up.