I am an ally. I haven't met or just worked with just one, I have friends and family who are LGBTQ+, and I am an artist and musician and its a very large community with alllll kinds of LGBTQ+ I've been associated with for atleast 3 decades all accross this country, and its not hate I harbour, its disdain for people who know nothing about a community with no desire to understand what they're all about. You may find a story here or there of a bad apple, just as you would find a countless number of coaches, teachers, or priests or anybody of authority who use that authority and gain control over children to abuse which you hear about all the time, like coach nassar, big story about him for years of abuse and shit ton of more coaches you hear about, f**king tons, its terrible, but I dont hear you railing against coaches or priests et al, you just seem hyper focused on the LGBTQ community. I get you dont like the gays but theyre definately not the devil you think they are and its sad because there are alot of good people who are LGBTQ+, and right now, a f**k ton more than coaches.