First, you post that you are Bi… and when I point out the obvious your reply was:
“ I want to DATE them not f**k them. Aroace is when you don't do either”
Then, when I point out the main purpose of dating, you come back with:
“ I don't, I just want a romantic connection. Aroace is where you neither f**k nor date.”
Most people consider a “romantic connection” as…wait for it….
sexual intercourse aka “f**king”
You are so confused that you literally contradict yourself at every turn.
Keep on this trajectory and the only relationship you will have is with your hands.