With regard to biological sex there are three categories, male, female and intersex. Otherwise, gender is a person’s mental understanding of their own gender identity which might not correspond with the gender they were assigned at birth (based on physical sex characteristics).
You say I am the equivalent of a creationist, creationists favor pseudoscience and put themselves at odds with scientific consensus about evolution. The scientific community overwhelmingly accepts transgender people, every major medical association says they exist and that gender-affirming care is beneficial treatment. I am not at odds with science, you are.