Here is video on toxic masculinity by Laci Green, she makes a lot of points that I think she is very right about. She points out that there is a difference between normal masculinity and toxic masculinity. She points out normal masculinity isn't toxic and that actual toxic masculinity does exist and it refers to overly aggressive male behavior, she also points out that toxic femininity exists too: https://youtu.be/i5juyXjDnJ0