Normal parents when their kid has a problem and asks for help: maybe we can figure out a solution together! Have you tried (x)? We'll help you through this!
My mom: SHUT UP GET YO ASS OUT WITH YOUR BULL. SHIT. YOU'RE A FAILURE AND NO ONE LIKES YOU FIGURE IT OUT YOURSELF YOU DON'T DESERVE THE THINGS THAT NAME YOU HAPPY
she's like this in every situation and has been for as long as I can remember- and judging by experience and observation I don't think treating young children like that all the time is good for their mental, emotional, or developmental health