Thanks for the support, Abby, but, truth be told, I paraphrased Russell for the sake of the meme, so it's on me. The actual quote is "You shouldn't say 'he' when a person is present, you should refer to a person by their name, that's basic good manners"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cZCEVd1r-bU&t=368s