My grandfather went repeatedly to get checked about pain in his gut. Got gallbladder stones removed. Still. Then again. And again. By the time they found the cancer months later, it had spread from his his stomach and was too late to even try anything. Then he passed away.
This needs verification, but I once heard that 80% of all visits to the dr result in misdiagnosis. They've had experiments where they sent people to multiple dentists, and each found a different problem in need of repair.
Perhaps, as anti already told you, you should stop being so concerned about why people who see themselves as trans and people who aren't seen as 'white' are being treated the way you wish to be treated, and try a little introspection. You're complaining that these people are being treated like human beings seeking happiness in life, while complaining that women don't find you suitable for dating. There's more to you than height and youthful features. In theory, anyways,,,