This #lolcat wonders if you're okay with being average

Define average

In this case: the most common behaviour in the same given circumstances

Circumstances changes, look at the modern era versus the nostalgia era. At several points in my life, I have worked a prep cook job. Used the earnings to buy a house and restore said home. I also have an advanced degree in economics. In Modern era doing what I do is beyond normal. High schools do not teach the skills I use to add wealth in my life, but the degree is normal. In the nostalgia era, I am still beyond normal. In the nostalgia era, the advanced degree is beyond the norm.

Also actions under-stress don't truly have a common behaviour pattern. We can as a field recognize discernable stages of behaviour. But commonality of behaviour is lacking.

Someone loses their mom.
Stage 1; denial
Person A: still in denial behaviour acts way A
Person B: still in denial behaviour acts way B

The only link is in the stage the behaviour occurred. Actions are personal choices.