Well my "bf"... of 30+ years, there was no hope, he served in Berlin, literally with Russians in his sights and one day having to pull the trigger to protect a civy. But to him, party more important than country. Have not spoken since bankrupt trust fund baby, traitor, cry baby was nominated.
as far as dad and bro, took years, but .... as sad as it is... its working... and one day I hope to hear... yea we got that wrong... but they also supported Jr and the invasion of Iraq... so little hope