The terms that they tend to use is "top" and "bottom", as I understand it... I'm guessing that they both refer to each other as "my husband", when speaking about each other, in the third person.
To me, the issue with Pete BootyJudge is that he's a DNCIA operative, and a career spook... And also a WEF "Young Global(ist) Leader" - being passed off as some kind of squeaky clean Technocrat, when he's so much worse than just that. He went "on-vacation" to Somaliland for a day or two - met with local leaders, and then wrote a travelogue about it for the (OPERATION MOCKINGBIRD) NY Times...🤔...and according to "former" CIA Whistleblower John Kiriakou - all of that, sounds SPOOKY AF. First off - NOBODY goes to Somaliland "on vacation" with their State Department bro (boyfriend?)... That's an assignment... Just getting the visas and the travel arrangements sounds next to impossible for an average joe. Then getting the NYTimes to publish your tale - is kind of a feat...or a huge 'TELL'.
He also worked for McKinsey - which is some kind of a CIA consulting firm. In LA, their Century City Office is next door to CAA - and I know for a fact that there's common parking garages, and connecting tunnels between all of that.
https://www.dailydot.com/debug/pete-buttigieg-cia/
http://web.archive.org/web/20200915054703/https://www.zerohedge.com/news/2020-02-17/deep-state-mayor-pete-could-former-naval-intelligence-officer-pete-buttigieg-be-cia
So I just did a websearch for "McKinsey + CIA" - Look at some of what came up...
https://www.gospanews.net/en/2021/02/18/nwos-plot-against-italy-x-file-2-new-it-minister-among-bilderberg-mckinsey-gates-cia-for-artificial-intelligence/
https://www.meridyenhaber.com/m/manset/turkiye-ye-mckinsey-bombasi-dustu-ekonomi-cia-ya-teslim-h36884.html (you'll need to auto translate - it's in Turkish)
https://www.rebellionresearch.com/cia-to-mckinsey-tara-maller-is-managing-risk
https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2020/01/pete-buttigiegs-far-left-critics-new-conspiracy-theory-hes-undercover-cia-agent/
http://gaysharing.com/gay-news/conspiracy-theorists-think-pete-buttigieg-is-a-spy-for-the-cia-yes-really/. (when you have at least two, nearly identical articles, running with the CIA's NLP buzzword "conspiracy theory/ist" - you can bet there's something that a PR Firm is trying to cover-up.)
https://www.wsws.org/en/articles/2018/09/21/ciad-s21.html
I noticed you had a meme about a CIANN Host, making a big deal about the masks. That's Pete.