I just hope he doesn't remember how hard his life was before I brought him up to my apartment. If that's spoiling him, I'm guilty. Although he is very funny, he has a satin pillowcase outside, but because they said it might rain I picked it up, and put another one on one of the chairs on the balcony. Keep in mind he's never gone up on the chair, but after I put the pillow case there, it;s now his favorite spot. :)
And I'm sure your big friend is always happy you're visiting him and holding him. :)
If there was more kindness in the world it would be a better place. Hoping your days are filled with kindness. :)