They most certainly are real. The size of the universe, and the enormous possibility for life elsewhere makes it a virtual certainty.
There are likely alien civilizations that are both more and less advanced than we are. It wouldn't surprise me to find there is an alien species that is identical to us, and as likely - there are alien species that are so completely different that we might not even recognize them as sentient life......non-carbon based, methane instead of water, plant based advanced life forms even.
The possibilities boggle the mind - as does the vastness of space. Even if the universe is teeming with life - the chances of any intelligent life being close enough that we'd meet them are very very small.