The primary concern that, I think, everyone should be wanting to see is results. Results that their children are performing academically, and that their skills learned in school result in jobs and the option to receive further education so that they may become functioning members of society.
I don't care what parents want their children to be taught. I don't care what children wear or what they do so long as they are not harming anyone. Identifying as a transgender is not, by itself, harming anyone. If a child or even an adult is raping another person, child or otherwise, regardless of what they identify as, then they need to be held responsible for their actions, not for whom they are in league with. The same goes for these domestic terrorist attacks. It matters not if they're Trump Supporters, or Liberals... if they commit a crime, and that crime causes serious harm, then charge the individuals not the groups of people they associate with.
What we need to do is stop trying to make everyone we don't like, or we disagree with, into villains. Into the enemy. That childish notion that all our problems will just GO AWAY if we get rid of "undesirables" should've been learned by the entire human race in the last century. It is MOST UNFORTUNATE that we are back again 100 years later to this absurd notion of the enemy of my enemy is my friend or that the only way to come together is to have a common enemy.
What brings people together is a common goal.
Our children growing up to be productive and happy adults IS a COMMON GOAL!
It astounds me that we cannot recognize any of our similarities because we're all too busy playing identity politics. Not just the left, but the right as well.
However, I recognize it will not be easy for this country to bring itself together. I know that people would rather have their instant gratification in killing or dismissing others rather than doing the hard work of actually trying to live with people you may not like or you think may not be living to YOUR standards. Well, and this goes to the left as well, stop trying to make people live to your standards.
Just stop. If you can do that, that will be the first step in true unification.