But all at takes is 1 bad ruler and the whole society is arguably worse than anarchy.
I'd like to bring up the book "Brave New World" by Aldous Huxley. The leaders do seem to act benevolently, and people are free and encouraged to have sex with many people for pleasure and to take a government issued happiness drug with no hangover/comedown when they feel down. The downside is that the government has cradle to grave control over people's lives, determining people's job and designing their mind and bodies to be fit for and happiest in that job, even limiting physical laborers mental ability to keep them content in their jobs.
Honest question, not rhetorical: would you prefer living in that society if you were in the upper class of thinkers and/or lower class of labourers (who are always happy still), where the government is guaranteed to be committing a certain number of moral tragedies, over a world where you won't always be happy and you are in more danger, but you are free to worship God or whatever you believe in, and possibly more or less moral tragedies occur, but they are not planned as in BNW?
Let me know if that doesn't make sense because it's a long sentence (but grammatically correct {I believe})
I am not going to judge you based on your answer, I'd just like to understand your thought process a bit better