Look, why're we even fighting? We've both been through a lot and just fighting over the dumbest things are just making things worse! I feel bad for you and I still care about you. I'm sorry for what I said and did. I apologize..
Listen, fighting won't solve anything, it just leads to more fighting, which also leads to more stress and anxiety, possibly more depression. Why don't we just calm down and be more mature.
We're fighting like children for Christ's sake! It ain't solving either one of our problems, it's just making things worse for ourselves!