Why can't I just not have a gender? Why is that a problem for people???

Gender is a social construct, it can be useful for some people and not for others, that's why non binary exists. Some people feel more comfy with gender, some don't. Some people have an easier time understanding themselves with gender, some don't.

We don't need to, and shouldn't just disregard gender, it's important. However, if you don't feel like you need a gender, you don't needa have one. Non binary folks are completely valid, but people who misgender others bc they don't beleive in gender. Don't be one of those people.

Oh ok... I'm so sorry. I feel bad now. 😔 My apologies.

yea actually! you don't have to have a gender. it's called being agender and it's under the nonbinary umbrella term

Ah, I'll have to look into that! Thanks <3

np!

I feel the same... Gender is just a crutch for people who can't make sense of the world otherwise. I don't see the point in having one, so I don't. 🤷

I feel the same way sometimes, but instead of enby, I default to agender.

I agree, gender has become such a big part of the world, it's stupid. BUT it is important, pjo taught me about being an individual, so yeah. And if you would like me to edit your template just tell me :)

Thank you! :D